Home Page for More than the Flu - a website devoted to transition and our current reality

transition is a wilderness
Trauma->Grief&Loss->Transition->Another Life

This website deals with trauma, transition, and our shared hope for another life after this wilderness. These pages won’t tell you how to cope with a pandemic, Trump2025, or whatever social disruption is next. I can’t offer medical or financial advice (thank God). Instead, what follows is a guide to the Five Steps of a Healthy Transition. Even if the leadership of our country is ignoring basic transitional principles, you can chart a healthier course for yourself, your family, and whatever workplace or church you belong to. Oh, by the way, transition is always a spiritual process, whether we consider ourselves religious or not.

As you journey through this wilderness, be sensitive to God’s peace and stay safe.

   –  Bill Kemp

     Trauma:

Trauma comes in many forms: pandemic, injustice, natural disaster, cultural upheaval, sudden unemployment, crippling disabilities… Need I list more? In every crisis, there will be someone saying, “It’s only a minor setback,” or “It’s just the flu.”

Hearing someone dismiss your pain doesn’t help. This website is different. What we say is:

  • What happened to you is Traumatic.
  • Trauma leads to Grief and Loss.
  • These initiate a period of Transition.
  • Healthy Transitions lead to Spiritual Growth.
  • In Time, you exit Transition and enter Another Life.

This new life isn’t necessarily better. It simply is your next life. All spiritual growth is painful. But the soul journeys on. That’s what you are meant to do.

A good motto is: “Transitions are often traumatic and rarely optional.”

There are no shortcuts or easy answers
There are no shortcuts or easy answers

   Another time of Transition:

I am updating this site in the spring of 2025 because the American people are in another time of transition. The Trump/Musk administration is reshaping the values and work of the United States Government. In many communities, hospitals and government agencies are the largest employers. Little is being done to help these workers transition into other employment.  Many of us are living in a state of fear, ignorance, and denial. 

Meanwhile in Ukraine, Taiwan, and the many foreign countries benefiting from USAID programs, the administration’s new broom is sweeping away years of predicable policies, healthcare work, famine relief, and military support to defend internationally recognized borders. This change will inevitably destabilize the security of the US homeland. 

 The thing about the traumas that initiate major transitions is that they rarely arrive as single events. Real change often delivers a double whammy. The world we are moving into will suffer from  “more than a single case of flu.”

Yes, things will eventually get better. This traumatic time will change America, just as 911 did. Perhaps more so. In time, we will exit Trump’s mishegoss. But the new normal world will differ from what we had before. What I am saying is that shared grief initiates both social change and personal transitions. We become different people. The soul journeys on.

I think the soul has certain tasks. On this journey, we should become ever more compassionate. Intentionally choose to be aware of truth and facts. And never let an immediate goal or end take precedence over healthy process and proven means. Every time and place has its own epidemics, culture wars, and natural disasters. We too will have trauma, grief, loss, transition, and hopefully, spiritual growth.

Face Current Reality

This page begins the transitional journey by confronting what has changed and what will never change.  Step this way…

Reframe Identity

Early in our journey we must choose to become a more authentic self. Ready? Then  Step this way…

Accept Grief and Loss

To go any further in our journey, we must release what we cannot hold and accept the work of grief. Step gently now…

Make Appropriate Decisions

The last step slowed you down. Now you can be more deliberate and think deeply. The journey is more important than the goal. Step this way…

Plan for the Future

We glimpse what lies ahead as we rethink our mission and values.Transition gives us new feet, designed for another life. Ready to think ahead? Step this way…

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